{"id":8914,"date":"2005-04-30T03:35:08","date_gmt":"2005-04-30T00:35:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mamchenkov.net\/wordpress\/2005\/04\/30\/parent-recognition-is-here\/"},"modified":"2005-04-30T03:35:08","modified_gmt":"2005-04-30T00:35:08","slug":"parent-recognition-is-here","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mamchenkov.net\/wordpress\/2005\/04\/30\/parent-recognition-is-here\/","title":{"rendered":"Parent recognition is here"},"content":{"rendered":"<!-- google_ad_section_start -->\n<p>Many parenting books say that at the age of about two months a child starts to recognize family members.  Some go as far as describe the reaction &#8211; smile and the rise of activity.  But none of them can describe it properly and thus don&#8217;t spoil the surprise.<\/p>\n<p>Yesterday, I woke up and went to check upon Maxim.  He was taken care of by his grandma and so I didn&#8217;t have to rush, but I did anyway, because I missed him too much (he was sleeping when I got back from work).  He was in his cradle and he was awake, but silent.  He looked kind of bored &#8211; didn&#8217;t want to sleep and didn&#8217;t want to play with his toys.  But the moment he saw me everything changed.  First, he gave me one of his <a href=\"\/wordpress\/2005\/04\/06\/hollywood-smile\/\">Hollywood smiles<\/a> and than he started waving his hands and legs as fast as he could.  He almost jumped out of his cradle, so glad he was to see me.<\/p>\n<p>I picked him up and looked straight into my eyes with the look saying something like &#8216;Dad, where the hack have you been for the last 12 hours?  I was all lonely here without you!  Let us go play now!&#8217;.  And he smiled.  Even if I somehow can misunderstand his looks, his smile is rock solid definite.  And when I see it, coupled with the looks, I feel like a Japanese cherry garden blossoms inside of me.  Kind of like they show it on Discovery, in fast forward mode with millions of flowers opening at a split second.  Amazing that is, I tell you. <\/p>\n<p>Later Maxim repeated his recognition smiley dance several times both for me and Olga.  Not yet for grandma though.<\/p>\n<!-- google_ad_section_end -->\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<!-- google_ad_section_start -->\n<p>Many parenting books say that at the age of about two months a child starts to recognize family members. Some go as far as describe the reaction &#8211; smile and the rise of activity. But none of them can describe it properly and thus don&#8217;t spoil the surprise. 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